September Spice!

September is a great time to get into BED — and so I will be working it! September will be VERY stimulating for people who love kinky sex, myself included. I’m talking about some good, old-fashioned BDSM intellectual stimulation, of course. In the works are a few wonderful new additions Read more…

The Origin of SSC: Who, When, and Why

History is what happens while you’re doing something else– and it
may not be until years later that you discover what you did
was “historic.” When i agreed in mid-1983 to be part of a committee
of GMSMA (Gay Male S/M Activists) charged with drafting a
new “statement of identity and purpose” for the two-year-old
organization, i had no idea that the lasting significance of our
work would be reduced to a single phrase: “safe, sane, and
consensual S/M.”

Getting Groupy!

Another historic beginning for BED as we launch the baby version of our BDSM Groups and Organizations Directory.  Very special thanks to the five educational groups who supported our project at this early stage by filling out applications and passing our vetting process.  We appreciate you all! Check it out Read more…