Today we’re delighted to share a new essay in our library, Horizontal Violence and Othering  by Allena Gabosch.

Note from the Reading Library Editor

I’m so pleased to be able to include this piece by Allena Gabosch in the BED Reading Library. Those of us who belong to various kink/kink-adjacent communities have seen a lot of upheaval in the past few years—but it’s not new. Allena gives us some excellent insights into horizontal violence and othering in our communities, where these negative activities originate, and how we can take part in helping to create healthier and safer communities for ourselves and others.   ~Skye 

Horizontal Violence and Othering

 

It’s one of the most important pieces BED has published this year because it explores how to improve your communication skills within the increasingly complicated BDSM/Fetish/Leather/alt.sex world of today  — and how to avoid hurting the very people you want to teach.


2 Comments

B · 09/14/2018 at 2:25 am

I’d like to talk about the “hets bring negative energy to a space” thing. I don’t want to start an argument. I just feel like I need to talk to someone about it. Does anyone else want to be listened to or listen?

    gloria · 09/26/2018 at 4:52 pm

    You’re welcome to start a dialogue about it. I’ll listen.

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